Resources and Links for Surviving Infidelity or Extramarital Affairs
Infidelity Crisis: How to Gain Forgiveness and Respect After Your Affair by Katie Coston is a site-sponsored, reader acclaimed ebook that helps the offending marriage partner heal the damage they caused within the relationship. Written by a former betrayed spouse, it covers the emotional side of affair discovery. Instant access pdf, gifted downloads available.
Infidelity: A Survival Guide by Don-David Lusterman gets excellent reader reviews from both the offender and the betrayed. According to its author, "People often find that once infidelity is discovered and its aftereffects are behind them, their relationship is stronger than before and subsequent infidelity is unlikely." Paperback. Includes advice on how to choose a counselor.
Affairs : A Guide to Working Through the Repercussions of Infidelity by Emily M Brown is an examination of the different types of affairs - why they happened - and custom steps to aid in healing for each affair type. For the offender and the betrayed.
After the Affair: Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful by Janis Spring incorporates her experience in treating distressed couples and explains how both the unfaithful partner and the betrayed spouse can confront their doubts and fears about recommitting, restore trust, renew intimacy and forgive. (Not affiliated with this Website)
Torn Asunder: Recovering From Extramarital Affairs by Dave Carder and Duncan Jaenicke offers couples hope, healing, and encouragement in the face of adultery - and provides an overall recovery process from both sexual and non-sexual affairs. Christ-centered surviving infidelity resource.
Not "Just Friends": Rebuilding Trust and Recovering Your Sanity After Infidelity by Shirley P. Glass, a long-time best-selling infidelity author.
Forgive and Forget: Healing the Hurts We Don't Deserve by Lewis B. Smedes is a timeless classic that is often overlooked when searching for infidelity help. The opening fable will speak volumes to the betrayed spouse - a must read.
Forgiveness Is a Choice: A Step-By-Step Process for Resolving Anger and Restoring Hope (Apa Lifetools) by Robert D Enright says that readers must be committed and immerse themselves in the four stages of self-discovery: uncovering anger, deciding to forgive, working on forgiveness, and release and says that the process of forgiveness is different for each person. A more clinical view - titled under the American Psychological Association's trade imprint.
Radical Forgiveness, Making Room for the Miracle by Colin C Tipping is a spiritual adventure that ends in "radical" freedom - freedom from hate, anger, and resentment.
When Love Dies - How to save a hopeless marriage by Judy Bodmer is a great read for the betrayed spouse who is having trouble forgiving - and - a great read for the offending marriage partner who thinks "But, I just don't love my husband or wife anymore!" This is an often overlooked but valuable source of Christ-centered infidelity help.
How to save your marriage alone by Dr Ed Wheat is serious help for troubled marriages, especially for the person whose spouse is seeking a divorce - there are sections in the book which talk about what you should do if your spouse has an affair partner and it contains excerpts from "Love Life for Every Married Couple". Its author is a Christian counselor, medical doctor, and sex therapist. This tiny book is the best marriage investment you'll ever make for under $4.
Divorce Remedy: The Proven 7-Step Program for Saving Your Marriage by Michele Weiner Davis shows how typical counseling and communications tactics can backfire. Its author pays special attention to issues of infidelity, depression, midlife crises, and "passion meltdowns," showing how basic relationship skills (like understanding and patience) can reverse even dire marital scenarios.
Dear Peggy Peggy Vaughan's legacy Website with free or donation-optional articles and ebooks on recovery from extramarital affairs.
Marriage Today Ministry Free videos with marriage advice, plus information on marriage intensives and help in finding a counselor. Christ-centered.
BAN (Beyond Affairs Network) Betrayed spouse affair recovery support groups.
Marriage Builders Forums Includes a forum for surviving an affair as well as affair recovery.
Retrouvaille For couples with marital problems, those in crisis, those considering seperation or divorce, and seeking help.
The Healing Heart Affair recovery forum for the betrayed spouse.
Surviving Infidelity Forums for the betrayed as well as the offender seeking reconciliation and healing.
Marriage Solution Workshop with New Life Live ministry, marital counseling weekend.
Coping with Affair Discovery article by Katie Coston is advice for the betrayed spouse in dealing with the stress of the early stages of affair discovery.
What is a "No-Contact Agreement"? article by Katie Coston explaining the use of such agreements in healing after an affair.
Understanding the "Need to Know" article by Katie Coston explaining the betrayed spouse's need to make sense of their partner's affair.
Boys Town Hotline is staffed by counselors 24 hours a day, for individuals or families in crisis.
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline call toll-free or chat online with a counselor.
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